MY WORLD OF TRUTH

                                The Career Woman. 

 The career woman, her knowledge no doubt, she knows it all so it seems. A master in the field of life, every qualification under the stratosphere of academics she has, her intelligence is so amazing, let her open her mouth and you will be blown away like weed blows away a Rasta man. She is a perfect definition of a woman by the world of professionalism and academics.

In that society she meets every requirement to be called a perfect woman. Hand in hand she rubs shoulders with the male folk, to her it is not a man’s world, rather it is a world you desire to have. In pride and courage she glides through doors, men bow and wow at her presence, she is served, worshipped, feared and approached with care. Her voice resonates through the walls, when she talks they listen; when she is quiet they fear something is wrong. Like a robot, the society consciously moulds a machine of too much perfection, so perfect that she fears herself.

The career woman, a woman of substance, but right there at the other side, in a domain that really doesn’t recognize her status as a career woman. In her home, a place where career cannot run or manage. A place where to get the best from, you must do things yourself and with much time and dedication.

She may be so good and extraordinary in the office, but might not just have a clue of how to manage a home and family. Right there in the home she appears not to be in control, everything just seems to be falling apart. Firstly, there is really not enough quality time to see to things and her brilliance most times gets her carried away, she keeps trying to apply some principles from the unfriendly world of her career in the home where everything is totally different. So crazy but true, she can handle the pressure from work very well, but she just keeps finding it hard to even cope, let alone handle the pressure .

Maybe her mind is divided; her attention is not as free and available as you all think. So perfect and fulfilled outside the home but a total wreck most times in the home. How much time does she have to share, where is the strength after a hard days job, where is the attention, where is the love. So many questions waiting to be answered, there are so many holes to be blocked, because those at home look up to her, they wait and crave for her touch of brilliance. That is the story of most career women; they are just like a bomb waiting to explode into bits.


NOT CAREER WOMAN
At the other side exist another type of woman; she is one of the best managers you can ever have. Her time, attention, love and concentration is never divided, in total commitment and dedication she puts everything in order, like that was what she was born to do. When you need happiness, joy, attention and quality time, she is ever available like air is to man. Very innocent and unassuming, ready to serve you and everyone till the end, her happiness is anchored on the joy and laughter that she sees on your faces. When you need someone to talk to she is there like a microphone in front of a musician. Nothing seems to go wrong in her presence, like perfection she makes everything and everyone look and really feel perfect. To a family and immediate society she is the true definition of a real woman, some call her a “full house wife”, while some call her a “stay at home mum”.

Anything you need she has in abundance, love comes naturally, a genuine attention is a way of life, to her caring and nurturing is all she lives for. In her hands destinies her built, respect is established and harmony reigns supreme. Look no further if you are looking for a great human manager and a home builder. She gives you a cool feeling knowing you have someone like her at home. She is so on point, like point and kill, no detail is ignored. Sometimes you think she is never tired or weak, where she gets her strength is still a puzzle even to herself. Right outside the walls of the home, contrast is the case.

She may not really be what you need, in the world of professionalism and academics she might not be the best, your friends and colleques never see her as what the standard of a wife or woman should be. They ignorantly believe she is not the best for you, considering your status and prestige in the society. Those things or quality that glorifies a woman outside the home may not come with the package. You may just want to hide her inside, letting her live in her own world of perfection. She is so different from the career woman, she does not glow under the glaring eyes of the world, the spot light is not her spot. Her life revolves majorly around her family. Their happiness, joy and fulfilment is what defines her existence.