MY WORLD OF TRUTH

When a man is satisfied sexually he sometimes thinks that is all a woman has to offer, and then he believes he has met the right one. She may not be the best life and love has for you. If only you can just take your time and see things outside your flesh and body. Before you fetch that water, why don’t you check the depth of the well it is coming from?

Beauty might not be all that you need in this journey of love, friendship and marriage. Life has something better than what you have right in front of you. Can she replace your mother, be as committed as your sister, can she manage a home without a fight, can she build destinies, these are questions you need to ask yourself before you settle for less.

As a man look beyond the hips and sexy lips, they are not part of the recipe to make a great meal that will leave an everlasting satisfaction in your life. Is she just out to get from you without returning anything good to you apart from sex and you say she is the best for you.

Don’t you know she should be like a mirror that reflects the qualities and abilities you possess outside the bed, does she challenge you intellectually, spiritually, economically, financially, socially and so on? If no, then she might not be the right one for you. If you want her for keeps then you need the best life has to give?

Staying with her just because she wows you and amazes your friends with her beauty and sexiness is a delay of future pain, shame and frustration. Who says a man doesn’t love or who says she need not be your friend to make things work.

 Not everything in skirt is worth your time, money and love, you deserve more than that. You say she is the best one and she has never told you NO. Haven’t you thought of it, maybe she is just a robot programmed to do as you say, as if life and love is a make believe.

There is something better for you, if only you can sit and take time to think deep, do you want more than you are getting, then do something If she can’t bring the best out of you then you still have so much work to do. You may say what will my friends say, or a bird in hand is better than thousands of birds in the bush, but what if that bird in your hand is not  worth it, or you just can’t eat it. Think about that.

Really, she might not be the right one for you. This is not your father talking but your brain.