MY WORLD OF TRUTH

2-      First encounter sucks most times. It could be so bad that it leaves some unending bitter after taste, which could affect subsequent ones. It is near to impossible to have or experience a smooth and perfect first time.

3-      Having multiple sex partners kills the fun and value of it. You no longer regard the act as sacred, rather you just see it like a drug that you just need at a point to get you high and fly. The more persons you have sex with, the more confused and unfulfilled you become. Many partners may seem adventurous at first but believe me, it gradually boomerangs and turns against you, because your appetite just grows out of control and you become insatiable sexually. You now engage in it like an animal.

4-      Sex is highly complicated and controversial if not understood and administered properly. Most people are so uncomfortable around it, some frown at it, while some still see it as a big mystery. It is culture, religion, race, sex and society sensitive, that is where its complications arise from. This sensitivity sometimes or most times build a myth around it (sex).

5-      Sex is never the best way to express love and affection. It is really not a true reflection of how a man especially loves a woman. Love and sex are not as related as we think or make it to appear. Love is a feeling from the extra ordinary while sex is most times just a feeling that is highly superficial and carnal. It satisfies majorly the flesh and not the soul.

6-      It is not a good way to find favour, affection, attention, respect, love and help. It should never be offered wrongly or with ulterior motives. So it doesn’t turn back to haunt the living day light out of you.

7-      A good and purposeful sex is very therapeutic. It helps boost confidence with men especially and good for the heart and in the production of a certain happy hormones. Engage in it looking beyond self-gratification and you will be glad you did.

8-      Sex and emotions goes hand in hand with the female folks. Once the emotions or feelings are not moved, the sex might be the most disastrous and frustrating experience ever for both parties. It hates distractions.

9-      Most times sex thrives and grows on the wings of spontaneity; it doesn’t like too much planning, arranging or sketching. It likes to come out naturally and powerfully, without been induced.

10-   Sex comes with responsibilities and requirement. It is not just done and dusted like it never happened. Every act of copulation has something involved, a lesson to teach and a message to pass. There is no casual sex; every sex is highly sophisticated and premeditated. One day the fruit of the careless seeds you sow will bear fruits, either good or bad, time will tell.

11-   Sex and stress are foes; they don’t and cannot walk together. Once stress is around sex wears a frown. A stress free mind is a needed ingredient in cooking up a fantastic pot of sex.

12-   Sex in the early hours of the morning is a beautiful ritual that cannot be ignored. The gods of carnality comes down at that time. It really has its own peak period, know that.

13-   It (sex) responds to smell, pictures, images, words, ideas, suggestions, leads, signs, body language, silence, a secured place and imagination. Take full advantage of all these tools, if you know the rules.

14-   Sex finds total expression when confidence, creativity and patience are involved. Know that you are not only out to enjoy yourself, but also out to fulfil and make the next person happy.