20 Steps to building a very high self esteem.

     These are 20 steps to building a powerful self esteem.

Step1--- Always build your personality on your strengths .

Step 2--- Never let peoples opinion or idea penetrate your psyche, that's the only way to stay

Step 3---When ever you wake up in the morning don't run straight to the mirror , rather sit on your bed and tell yourself how beautiful/handsome you are.

Step 4---Try hard to identify your weaknesses , know them and work on them.Step 5---Always wear a graceful smile, it could neutralize every form of hostility around you.Step 6---Always look into peoples eyes and not their faces, that will tell them you are not scared.
Step 7---Create a style that soothes you, be real, don't try to be what you are not, always be yourself, even if you are in front of a president.

Step 8----Don't always expect compliments from people, rather expect bag loads of criticism, this mentality guards your mind even before hand.

Step 9----Be ready to learn from anyone but not from everybody.

Step 10---Your knowledge and intelligence naturally helps your self esteem, so try to get knowledge and always be as informed as possible.

Step 11----Don't live your life seeking for unnecessary attention and affection cause you might not get it, thats life for you.

Step12----Keep friends that respect and value your qualities and abilities.

Step13---Your background or family issues not with standing, if you look well you will discover you are not the only one with family issues, but how well can you manage it, cause that is what fuels the drive and passion inside you .

Step 14----Try as much as possible to dress to sooth your mind, never be forced to wear what pleases the next person when it makes you uncomfortable.

Step 15---Simplicity might sound to simple and causal but it really works, try to be as simple and precised as possible.

Step 16----Always be a good listener, that makes you talk better.

Step17---Never be in a hurry to impress , what you have upstairs will attract people to you without stress.

Step 18----Discover who you are so that no one makes feel less, be happy from inside , know what you want and don't be subdued by anyone.

Step19----Always stand on what you believe in , never assume you know better than everyone, but always tell yourself that you are as good as anyone.

Step20---Involve God in whatever you do in life, pray hard and feed your mind and soul with positive words, words that can shatter every sign of fear and low self esteem,
always have this on the palm of your hand "A LICKING MIND IS A SINKING LIFE", when there are holes in your mind, frivolous and irrelevant issues find their way into it, which could affect ones self esteem.