How to walk out of a relationship without scars..

1----- When the fire is no more burning, try to call it off without acrimony or fight...
2----- Try to avoid the former, in what ever way you can, because the more you see your former the harder it is to get over it.... 

3--- Don't be too hard on yourself when apportioning blames, just have it at the back of your mind that maybe it(relationship) wasn't meant to be...

4----Never try to seek revenge or vindication by rushing into another relationship immediately because at this point your are vulnerable , which could expose you to been taken advantage of..

5---After the shock of a breakup, never try to cover up or ignore the fact that something is actually wrong, instead express your emotion but don't be too expressive about it..

6---Keep all personal effect of your "EX" away like pictures, clothes, shoes and so on...

7--- Have it at the back of your mind that it might take time to get over it, so take everyday as it comes, don't try to rush out of the effect, take things gradually....

8---Never let your past experience change your mind about relationships generally, that way you are able to move on and free yourself from the shackles of your past, which helps you to find a better relationship...

9--- Don't try to go after your "EX" it would only prolong the emotional trauma....

10--- The greatest mistake you can make is try to suppress your emotion through ( DRUGS, DRINKS, FOOD, PARTIES) and so on because they will only plunge you deeper into a world of illusions and pain....

11--- Learn from your past relationships, pick out the wrongs and try to work on them...

12--- The last but not the least, when you think of your Ex, just imagine an old habit you have successfully dropped and not willing to go back to it.....