MY WORLD OF TRUTH
Thursday, 9 January 2014
LAWS OF ATTRACTION.
LAWS OF ATTRACTION.
To attract people to you there are certain things that you
must possess, project, know and believe in. These laws know no sex, race,
religion or cultural background, all it knows is, any mortal within the range
of its centrifugal force will be attracted like a powerful magnet.
No matter how you see it, this law is real and it is
available to whoever believes in it and knows how to put it to judicious use.
1.
To attract anybody to you, there must be a large
deposit of a force inside your central force of attraction, which is your
“mind”. Inside your mind lies your self-esteem that is how you see yourself.
You must never see yourself in a low and submissive way, if not that central
force inside your mind, which controls your self-esteem will not carry enough
energy to pull people to you naturally. Work on your self-esteem, feed it with
energy, let it burn high, but do not get it burnt, it could lead to over
confidence, which most times push people away from you.
2.
Do not build your strength around your looks.Your strength should radiate from inside your subconscious being, where no man
or woman can reach. The physical most times never controls or attract the mind,
and to attract or pull people to you, you need to connect with their mind. With
this you attract people to you with ease.
3.
Equip your intellectual base, load your brain
and mind with every necessary and useful data/information at your disposal.
With enough and correct information you are not short of what to say, and not
just saying something, but saying what can move or pull people towards you. Get acquitted with the lowest of
information, nothing is too low or irrelevant to be ignored; you never know
when that information will come in handy.
4.
Identify
your weakness; discover your Achilles heel in private, before it exposes you in
public. Work on your weakness, be comfortable around it, learn how to cope with
it and be ready to receive any form of attack that comes with it. They will use
it against you, so identify it and work on it. Don’t be too defensive about it.
5.
Never throw yourself at any one. Be cool and
calm, attracting people should come naturally, it must not be forced or bought.
Know that what you have inside you is good enough to attract people to you.
6.
Be as natural as possible, avoid faking
anything. Let everything that comes from you be as real as the ground you walk
on. If you don’t like someone be real about it, and if you do be real about it.
Just make sure you are never seen as fake or artificial, it damages lots of
things.
7.
Exude confidence in every form and way possible,
in your stare, smile, laughter, walk, gestures, handshake, hug, peck, kiss,
conversation and so on. The more confident you carry, the faster you win
people’s confidence and if you can win their confidence, they come to you
naturally.
8.
Never miss use the law of attraction, because it
could back fire. It must not be used to cheat, deceive or scam. If you have an
ulterior motive for attracting people, then desperation and anxiety sets in
when things is not going your way.
9.
Always try to appear as simple, tidy and clean
as possible, when going out .Take note of some basic things around your body
and what you wear. A well groomed facial hair for a guy, for a lady a well
packed and simple hair. Do not go to extreme in dressing up or looking good. Designers
do not attract the right people, what does the attraction is how you combine
the dress with your charisma and confidence.
10.
Learn how to behave in public, a proper and well
organized public etiquette is very important, how you behave in the confines of
your room is different from how you behave in the mist of people you are
meeting, especially if it’s for the first time.
11.
Learn and know how to talk or engage in a very
mature and convivial conversation. Know when to joke, and when to be dead
serious. Do not be too rigid when talking, be lively and try not to dabble into
a topic you have little knowledge about. That is why it is good to be well
read, properly informed and vast in most topics or issues.
12.
Never look down on anyone and never be seen or
taken for an arrogant person, it is so repulsive, being a snub won’t do your
cause of attraction any good. Be ready to exchange a genuine smile, laughter
and joke, with people around you. Do not appear too serious and you must not be
taken as an unserious person, try to strike a very good balance. Avoid talking
too much, it does not attract people, rather it makes people run from you.
13.
Do not follow the crowd, be unique in everything
you do, stand for what you believe in, but do not try to force people to see
things your way.
14.
Learn that not everyone will like you, trying to
please everyone you meet makes you lose touch with you, and when this happens
how do you attract people to a confused you.
15.
Be ready to lead, in case you find yourself in
such position. Show it that you want to lead, prove to them that you are not
scared of taking responsibility.
16.
Develop an impervious mind, a mind that doesn’t
get influenced easily, or moved by what people say. That doesn’t me you
shouldn’t take advice or criticism from people, but sieve it, use the good ones
and discard the destructive ones. Your mind should at all times be protected,
it should be fed with powerful words, and it must not be subjected to the
control of anyone.
17.
Work on your gaze; learn how to look into
people’s eyes with confidence. A look of confidence attracts people without you
saying a word. When you need to look at someone, do not avoid eye contact no
matter what your mind or body tells you.
18.
Psyche up yourself, you need to live under a
constant natural high, how you do it is up to you. This means your mood must be
good at least 16hrs every day, but 24hrs is far better. With a smooth mood,
even those who are down will look for you to lift them up and get their groove
back on. A good mood is highly infectious; it pulls people to you, because you
just lighten them up.
19.
Don’t be clumsy, be calm, cool and calculated,
never be lost in your thought when around people, learn to be courteous, don’t
be quick to judge, avoid gossips, be trendy and ready to go.
20.
Learn not to allow what you see in the mirror
affect you, what you see most times is not really a true reflection of what you
carry inside, have this at the back of your mind and you are good to go.
Attracting people all boils down to working on yourself,
beating your abilities into something useful, shaping your mind for the world
to accept and acknowledge that you carry something inside you.
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